Su Connan

Contact Details

New Cross Natural Therapy Centre, 394 New Cross Road, London, SE14 6TY
0784 716 5448
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The New Cross Natural Therapy Centre is situated close to New Cross rail and overground station. I also work from home, a 5 minute walk from New Cross station. Buses: 21, 36, 136, 343, 321, 171, 172, 225, 436, 453 & 177. There is free parking at the centre and free on street parking at my home address. I do not have disabled access but I am willing to travel in the local area if access would be a problem for you.

Fees & Charges

I charge £45 for an initial consultation. Further appointments are charged on a sliding scale based on income. I hold some reduced fee places during the day for those on low incomes where the concerns are related to kink/BDSM. I request payment in advance for Skype sessions.


Car parking available, Ground Floor Room But No Wheelchair Access, Skype Video Counselling.

My clients

Gender & Sexual Minorities Experienced:
Cross Dresser/Transvestite
Kink/BDSM (all gender/sexualities)
Other Gender Variant
Trans F2M
Trans M2F
Age ranges:
Young Adults (16-24)
Young people (< 16)
Relationship Styles:
Friend and Family members

About me


I am a Person-Centred/integrative therapist with over 10 years experience in working with gender and sexual minority clients. I am accredited member of the BACP (British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy). I am in private practice in New Cross SE14 in South East London.  I also see clients at London Bridge SE1 and via Skype.  I  deliver training for therapists in working with BDSM/Kink and offer clinical supervision and consultation.

Sexual & Gender Identity:
Bisexual - Female

Experience and approach

Specific experience and training:

I work in a non-pathologising approach with gender, relationship and sexual diversity clients, in private practice and (post qualifying) as a volunteer counsellor for the Metro Centre (an LGBT health and advice centre based in Greenwich). 

I have extensive experience of offering therapy to gender and sexual diversity clients, including queer, gender queer, non-binary and trans clients; lesbian, gay men, bisexual men and women, polyamorous, kink/BDSM identified clients and those questioning or experiencing distress around their gender, sexual identity or sexual practices.

My article, A Kink in the Process was published in July 2010 by Therapy Today. The article addresses the need for therapists to become informed in order to work safely with kink/BDSM clients.

I deliver training for Pink Therapy and other training organizations for therapists on Understanding Kink and BDSM.

I completed the Essentials in Sexual Minority Therapy programme in 2008 and the first 1 year Certificate in Sexual Minority Therapy in 2010 - both with Pink Therapy and I continue to pursue training and professional development around counselling, supervision and issues of gender and sexuality.  I am currently training as a psychosexual and relationship therapist.

Therapies Practiced:
Counselling, Psychosexual therapy, Psychotherapy, Supervision/Consultation.
Specialisms and interests:
I am experienced in working with young people and adults and with people in a range of relationship styles including monogamous, polyamorous and open relationships and kink and BDSM relationships.  I work with all members of the 'kink community' and those who do not identify as such but are questioning or exploring this aspect of their sexuality, regardless of their sexual orientation. I work with people exploring their sexuality and how they experience their gender identity.
Theoretical approach:
Couple Therapy, Humanistic, Integrative, Person-Centred, Relational.
Ethical Framework:


City and Guilds Higher Professional Diploma in Counselling 2006
(Jan 1980)
Certificate of Accreditation
BACP (Oct 2010)
Cetificate in Sexual Minority Therapy
Pink Therapy (Nov 2010)
Diploma in Integrative Psychosexual Therapy
The Centre for Psychosexual Health (Aug 2019)
Post-Graduate Diploma in Supervision
Kent and Medway NHS Trust (Oct 2013)
BACP Accred.

Issues and problems I can help with:

Addictions/Compulsive behaviours, Ageing Issues , Anxiety/ Panic Attack, Attention Deficit Disorders/ ADHD, Bereavement/Grief, Childhood Sexual Abuse (Survivors), Civil Partnership Preparation/ Dissolution, Co-Dependency, Coming Out Issues, Compulsive Behaviours (Sex, Gambling, Spending, etc), Cross Dressing/ Transvestism, Cultural/Ethnic Issues, Depression, Digestive and Urinary System (Constipation, IBS, Cystitis, Diverticulitis, etc), Divorce, Domestic Violence, Drug/ Alcohol Misuse, Eating Difficulties/ Anorexia/ Bulimia, Emotional Growth & Development, Erectile Difficulties, Fertility/ Conception, Gender Identity Concerns, HIV/ AIDS, Homophobic Bullying, Intimacy Issues, Kink/BDSM Identity Concerns, Learning/ Physical Disability issues, Menopause, Organisational/Life Management, Parenting Issues, Post Traumatic Stress, Pregnancy/ Post Natal Depression, Rape/ Sexual Assault/ Sexual Trauma, Relationship Issues, Religious Conflicts, Self Esteem/Confidence, Sexual Arousal/ Desire Difficulties, Sexual Problems/Dysfunction/Desire Discrepancies, Shame/Guilt, Single Parenting Issues, Spiritual Counselling, Suicidal Behaviour/Ideation, Transgender, Trauma, Workplace Issues.


Contact us by: Email: | Telephone: 07971 205323 | Post: Pink Therapy, BCM 5159, London WC1N 3XX