Stephen Weaver

Contact Details

St.Paul's, Blackfriars, London, EC4V 5EG
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Central London: Near St.Paul's Cathedral, off Ludgate Hill in Blackfriars St.Paul’s (Central Line) Blackfriars (District Line ), and City Thameslink are all within 3 minutes walk Ludgate Hill stands at the crossroads of cross-London bus routes, accessing most rail stations.

Fees & Charges

My fee is £80 a for a 50 minute session.
Couples therapy is £100 per session.

Some lower fee spaces may be available upon enquiry for those in psychotherapy training.

Missed appointments are charged in full.

Fees are payable at the end of each session by cash or cheque, or may be paid a month in advance. I am not able to process payment by debit or credit card, but BACS payment can be arranged on a weekly basis or a month in advance.

Fees are revised on an annual basis. A month’s notice will be given of any intended increase.


Car parking available, Skype Video Counselling, Telephone Counselling.

My clients

Gender & Sexual Minorities Experienced:
Cross Dresser/Transvestite
Kink/BDSM (all gender/sexualities)
Age ranges:
Seniors (60+)
Young Adults (16-24)
Relationship Styles:
Friend and Family members

About me

Although I am currently unable to offer face-to-face work with clients, I can offer counselling, psychotherapy and supervision on the phone or online.


I offer counselling, psychotherapy and supervision in Central London and in Rye, East Sussex.
I work with men and women, individuals and couples, straight and gay, young and old. 
In nearly 20 years as a therapist I have helped over 1,000 people!


Sexual & Gender Identity:
Gay - Male

Experience and approach

Specific experience and training:

Before qualifying as a relationship counsellor and then as a psychotherapist and supervisor, I worked as a teacher and as a priest in London.

I hold Diplomas in Counselling, Psychotherapy and Supervision from CCPE London and I have been a UKCP-registred therapist since 2001.

For five years I was the Gay Men's HIV and Sexual Health Counsellor at PACE, since when I have also been working in private practice in the West End/City and in Rye, East Sussex.

I work in Central London (Fleet Street) and Rye, East Sussex.

I work with gay and lgbt individuals and couples.



My own experience convinced me what a difference a gay-affirmative counsellor with some understanding of those issues can make to the therapeutic process. From growing up gay to coming out, from exploring sex to forming relationships and from negotiating mid-life to the challenges of ageing, I offer a wholistic perspective on the issues you may bring.  


Therapies Practiced:
Business/Career Coaching, Counselling, Psychosexual therapy, Psychotherapy, Supervision/Consultation.
Specialisms and interests:


  • Anxiety and Fear
  • Compulsive behaviour
  • Creative blocks
  • Couple counselling
  • Decision-making and discernment
  • Depression
  • Faith conflicts
  • Gay and lgbt issues
  • Life in The City of London
  • Life crises
  • Loss and bereavement
  • Low self-confidence/self-esteem
  • Midlife issues
  • Relationship issues
  • Sex/Internet “addiction”
  • Sexual health
  • Sexuality
  • Spirituality
  • Therapeutic use of photography
  • Stress
  • Supervision
  • Working with dreams


Therapy provides a friendly and non-judgemental space in which we can work together to explore your issues.
Counselling is usually short-term (between 1-12 sessions) and typically addresses how to manage problems better. 


Psychotherapy is more open-ended (anything from 3 months to 3 years) and addresses, not only the causes of some of the problems you face but also the purpose of them. 


There are many approaches to counselling and psychotherapy with no one 'right' method. 


When we first meet we will be to sound out the issue you are bringing and discern what may be the best fit for you to explore them in counselling or psychotherapy. 



I also work with couples on a range of issues:

  • Communication difficulties
  • Managing conflict
  • The impact of our parenting and family of origin 
  • Family dynamics
  • Feeling distant or estranged
  • Cheating and affairs
  • Sex and intimacy
  • The impact of sex/internet 'addiction'
  • Power struggles and inequality
  • Adjusting to mid-life and ageing

I also offer supervision to other counsellors in both Central London and in Rye.

You can learn more about how I work on on my website.


Theoretical approach:
Cognitive Therapy, Couple Therapy, Integrative, Psychodynamic (Jungian), Psychosynthesis, Solution Focused Brief Therapy, Transpersonal.
Ethical Framework:
BACP, Constituent of UKCP.


Diploma in Counselling and Psychotherapy
Centre for Counselling and Psychotherapy Education, London (Dec 2001)
Diploma in Supervision
Centre for Counselling and Psychotherapy Education, London (Dec 2003)
Certificate in Marital Counseling
University College of Ripon and York St.John (Sep 1998)

Issues and problems I can help with:

Addictions/Compulsive behaviours, Ageing Issues , Anxiety/ Panic Attack, Bereavement/Grief, Civil Partnership Preparation/ Dissolution, Co-Dependency, Coming Out Issues, Compulsive Behaviours (Sex, Gambling, Spending, etc), Cultural/Ethnic Issues, Dating And Relationship Skills, Depression, Emotional Growth & Development, HIV/ AIDS, Intimacy Issues, Phobias, Relationship Issues, Religious Conflicts, Self Esteem/Confidence, Sexual Problems/Dysfunction/Desire Discrepancies, Shame/Guilt, Spiritual Counselling, Stress Management, Trauma.

Stephen Weaver


Contact us by: Email: | Telephone: 07971 205323 | Post: Pink Therapy, BCM 5159, London WC1N 3XX