Nick Field

Contact Details

London, SW19
0203 637 6544
+44 (0)7798 526720
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Although I work out of my Therapy Studio in Wimbledon, SW19 (nearest stations: Wimbledon/Haydon's Road), at present I am still predominantly holding sessions and meetings over secure Online Video Conference software (eg Zoom/Skype), unless otherwise agreed in a separate discussion.

Fees & Charges

If you would like to discuss your requirements by phone, I can offer you a FREE initial 20 minute session.

Initial hourly Consultation/Assessment session (50min) and each subsequent hourly session (50min) : £75 (£85 after 5pm)

Extended 1.5hr session (80mins) : £115 (£125 after 5pm)

NB: I predominantly work with individuals but do consider working with couples, space permitting:

Fees for Couples

Initial hourly Consultation session (50min) and each subsequent hourly session (50min) : £115 (£125 after 5pm)

Extended 1.5hr session (80mins): £170 (£180 after 5pm)

I do carry a couple of lower fee concessionary spaces each week - available to students/low income/unemployed, for daytime sessions (before 5pm). If you want to enquire about one of these, please let me know.

NB: This also applies for Key Workers/NHS staff/furloughed employees during the Covid19 pandemic.


Car parking available, Online/Internet Counselling, Skype Video Counselling, Telephone Counselling, Wheelchair access.

My clients

Gender & Sexual Minorities Experienced:
Cross Dresser/Transvestite
Kink/BDSM (all gender/sexualities)
Other Gender Variant
Trans F2M
Trans M2F
Age ranges:
Seniors (60+)
Young Adults (16-24)
Relationship Styles:
Friend and Family members

About me

PLEASE NOTE: UPDATE March 2022 – Due to the ongoing Covid 19 Pandemic, I am still seeing clients online for the foreseeable future, however my Practice is full so am not taking on any new clients right now (unless you would like to discuss opportunities in the longer term, when spaces become available). I will update this as soon as the situation changes. 

am a qualified counsellor and academic practitioner-researcher (or researcher-practitioner) of transpersonal psychotherapy and sexuality/spirituality.

I provide Counselling and Therapy around a number of issues including: grief, stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, finding meaning and purpose in life, transitions, relationship issues, decisions, spiritual growth and personal development.

I have particular experience with clients facing personal, cultural, gender, sexuality, relationship, spiritual and workplace issues. This includes counselling for people already in or seeking GSRD (Gender, Sexual and Relationally Diverse)/LGBTQ+/Gay/BDSM/Leather/Kink relationships, including questions/concerns around sexuality/fetish, coming out issues, power dynamics and roles, chemsex issues, fantasy exploration and understanding, overall self-acceptance, self-actualisation and spiritual/transpersonal issues. I am a member of The London Gender, Sexual and Relationship Diversity Practice.

Your sexuality will not necessarily be the focus of our counselling work, unless you want it to be. I offer a safe space in which you can explore your sexuality and/or gender identity in a supportive, understanding setting.

Qualifications and Experience:

I am a member of Pink Therapy's Advanced Clinical Discussion Group: Kink and it's Peer Supervision Group on OCSB (Out of Control Sexual Behaviour)/Sexual Health. I have also participated in numerous training weekends and workshops on Gender, Sexual and Relational Diversity issues including working with Chemsex and Sexual Abuse.

I hold a Post Graduate Diploma (PGDip) in Psychosynthesis counselling, after completing a three year training at The Psychosynthesis Trust in London, accredited by Middlesex University. 

I am an Accredited Registrant with the National Counselling Society (MNCS Accred) and a Registered Member of the British Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapists (MBACP) and abide by their Ethical Frameworks.

I hold Advanced Accredited Gender, Sexual and Relationship Diversity Therapist status with Pink Therapy (Accred AGSRDT)

I also hold a Graduate Certificate in Psychosynthesis Foundations, also from The Psychosynthesis Trust and an MA in Gender, Sexuality and Culture from University of London, Birkbeck.

Sexual & Gender Identity:
Gay - Male

Experience and approach

Specific experience and training:

My primary experience and training is in Psychosynthesis, an integrated and holistic model of counselling and therapy which recognises that each of us are a soul on a personal journey. Central to its approach is an exploration of meaning, purpose, creativity, inspiration and values, whilst also addressing the many personal struggles that can effect us. Psychosynthesis seeks to explore, integrate and heal these areas through the search for wholeness beyond the bounds of a person’s individuality. 


I have experience working with a number of issues including: grief, stress, anxiety, depression, issues related with chemsex, finding meaning and purpose in life, transitions, relationship issues, decisions, spiritual growth and personal development.

I specialise in working across gender, sexual and spiritual diversities including alternative sexualities and relationalities, kink, BDSM and, in particular, the gay male Leather scene.

I also have a particular interest in and specifically focus on the following areas of research and practice:

  • understanding of gender, sexuality and cultural issues with specific focus on the areas of male (homo)sexuality and adolescent maturation into adulthood
  • intergenerational mentorship and the significance of ‘elders’ contribution in the community,
  • S&M and alternative-style relationships
  • how sexuality and spirituality are intertwined.
Therapies Practiced:
Counselling, Psychosexual therapy, Psychotherapy.
Specialisms and interests:

 Long and short-term work, coming out, sexuality, sexual identity, chemsex, depression, anxiety, self-esteem, stress (life/work balance), relationship difficulties (individuals and couples), bereavement and loss, pre and post operative transgender, HIV/AIDS, mid-life crisis and existential issues, spiritual emergence and spiritual development.

Theoretical approach:
Art Therapy, Attachment Theory (Psychodynamic), Behavioural Therapy, Body Psychotherapy, Brief Dynamic, CBT, Cognitive Therapy, Existential, Gestalt, Group Therapy, Humanistic, Integrative, Intercultural/Transcultural, Interpersonal, Narrative Therapy, Neuro-Linguistic Psychotherapy, Person-Centred, Psychodynamic, Psychodynamic (Jungian), Psychosynthesis, Relational, Sacred intimate, Solution Focused Brief Therapy, Systemic, Transactional Analysis, Transpersonal.
Ethical Framework:
BACP, National Counselling Society.


Postgraduate Diploma in Psychosynthesis Counselling
Psychosynthesis Trust/Middlesex University (Oct 2015)
BACP Membership
BACP (Jan 2016)
Graduate Certificate in Psychosynthesis Foundations
Psychosynthesis Trust/University of East London (Sep 2013)
MA in Gender, Sexuality and Culture
Birkbeck, University of London (Sep 2011)
National Counselling Society

Issues and problems I can help with:

Addictions/Compulsive behaviours, Ageing Issues , Agoraphobia, Anger Management, Anxiety/ Panic Attack, Attention Deficit Disorders/ ADHD, Bereavement/Grief, Cancer, Childhood Sexual Abuse (Perpetrators), Childhood Sexual Abuse (Survivors), Civil Partnership Preparation/ Dissolution, Claustrophobia, Co-Dependency, Coming Out Issues, Compulsive Behaviours (Sex, Gambling, Spending, etc), Cross Dressing/ Transvestism, Cultural/Ethnic Issues, Dating And Relationship Skills, Depression, Developmental Disabilities, Dissociative Disorders, Divorce, Domestic Violence, Drug/ Alcohol Misuse, Emotional Growth & Development, Erectile Difficulties, Executive Coaching, Gender Identity Concerns, HIV/ AIDS, Homophobic Bullying, Insomnia/ Sleep Disorders/ Apnea, Intimacy Issues, Kink/BDSM Identity Concerns, Life Coaching, Organisational/Life Management, Personality Disorders, Phobias, Psychosis, Psychosomatic Illness, Rape/ Sexual Assault/ Sexual Trauma, Relationship Issues, Religious Conflicts, Self Esteem/Confidence, Sexual Arousal/ Desire Difficulties, Sexual Problems/Dysfunction/Desire Discrepancies, Shame/Guilt, Spiritual Counselling, Stress Management, Suicidal Behaviour/Ideation, Transgender, Workplace Issues.

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