Affirmative Gay Relationships: Key steps in finding a life partner
Neil Kaminsky (2003)

1. So Many Men, So Much Aggravation; 2. What is a Real Life Partner?; 3. The Gay Culture of Pretty: how to live with the face you have; 4. Searching Anxiety: how to talk to any man you want; 5. How to Meet an Available Man; 6. Do You Really Want a Boyfriend; 7. Finding Yourself First; 8. Expecting The Worst and Getting It; 9. Where Are the Men? 10. Facing Rejection; 11. Mr Perfect is Not; 12. Embracing Emotional Vulnerability; 13. Dating for Your Future. Bibliography

Boyfriend 101
Jim Sullivan (2003)

Chapter 1 Getting Started Chapter 2 Beginning the Conversation Chapter 3 Where to Meet Guys Chapter 4 Dating Protocols: guidelines for the first 3 dates Chapter 5 What's Your Type Chapter 6 Keeping a Health Body and Mind Chapter 7 Communication Strategies for Couples. Resource Guide.

Finding True Love in a Man-Eat-Man World: the intelligent guide to gay dating, romance and eternal love
Craig Nelson (1996)

Chapter 1 Are you ready, willing and able? Chapter 2 Modern love Chapter 3 How to go to a bar Chapter 4 How to meet men Chapter 5 Sex tips for guys Chapter 6 Date tips for guys Chapter 7 Man trouble Chapter 8 When things start getting serious Chapter 9 Fidelity? What's fidelity? Chapter 10 Keeping it together Chapter 11 When it falls apart

Permanent Partners: building gay and lesbian relationships that last
Betty Berzon (2004) Revised Edition

This revised edition of a best selling book from one of the foremost relationship therapistsworking with lesbians and gay men.

Passionate Marriage: Sex, Love, and Intimacy in Emotionally-Committed Relationships
David Schnarch (1998)

An excellent self-help book for couples in committed relationships.

Resurrecting Sex: solving sexual problems and revolutionizing your relationship
David Schnarch (2002)

Part 1: A Crash Course in Sex

Part 2: How Sexual Relationships Work

Part 3: Medical Options

Part 4: Couples in Search of Solutions

Appendices

Note: Although this book is aimed at straight couples in monogamous relationships, there is much here that will be of immense benefit to sexual minority couples.

Get Closer: A Gay Men's Guide to Intimacy & Relationships
Jeffrey Chernin (2006)

Chapter 1: Gay Men and Intimacy Chapter 2 Getting Ready for a Relationship Chapter 3 Meeting and Dating Men Chapter 4 Early Intimacy Chapter 5 What to Expect as You Get Closer Chapter 6 Building the Foundation for Deeper Intimacy Chapter 7 Understanding Relationship Dynamics Chapter 8 Changing Relationship Dynamics Chapter 9 Negotiating Gay Relationships in a Straight World Chapter 10 Challenges Over Time Chapter 11 The Biggest Threats Chapter 12 Communication Tools for Restoring and Enhancing Intimacy Chapter 13 Achieving Genuine Intimacy

When It's Time to Leave Your Lover: A Guide for Gay Men
Neil Kaminsky (1999) 

Chapter 1 Lovesick Chapter 2 Reinventing Your Life: Making the Decision to Leave Him Chapter 3 How to Break Up Like a Grown-up: Healthy Ways of Saying Good-bye Chapter 4 A Time of Pain: Dealing with the Emotional Aftermath of a Gay Divorce Chapter 5 You No Longer Live Here: Social and Other Life Changes of Breaking Up Chapter 6 Creating the Ex-Relationship: Developing the Kind of Contact You Want Chapter 7 Remembering the Misery: Why You Shouldn't Go Back Chapter 8 Alone Again: Facing the Difficulties, Appreciating the Benefits Chapter 9 How to Say No to the Rebound Trap: Taking a Relationship Vacation Chapter 10 Learning the Lessons of Your Ex-Relationship Chapter 11 Starting Over: Loving a Man